A few months ago, I began casually hanging out with a former co-worker.
Things progressed and we began hooking up once in a while.
So let’s add another one to the list: chasing the same girl. “Well,” I paused, trying to construct my sentence, “If the guys decide to fight there will be someone who will lose both a friend and a girl.” “True, but…” And I see it right then and there. However, during a meal with some friends a couple of days later, Boy B apparently liked her too.
Apparently, he thought my reaction is a bizarre thing to do. It’s like they have no will to fight over the girl at all,” he said. There was Boy A who met Girl Z, and he immediately liked her.
Many times the answers lie in the gray areas, and in the deeper questions. If you’re afraid this new romance will have a major effect on the relationship you have with your friend, you may feel confused, disappointed and frustrated. Figuring out where the dislike is coming from is a good place to start and it can help you know how to pray for the situation and respond to it.You can also ask her about her dating life and openly talk about your own.Just be sure to keep the conversation light (otherwise you risk become her “therapist”) and positive (i.e. Talking about your dating life and how none of the girls you’ve met have measured up can then be your segue to expressing your desire to date her.When a close friend is dating someone you don’t like, what do you do?The answer is easy: you step in and do whatever it takes to break them up. Okay, we know that answer won’t win the million-dollar prize.